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Huiwen Wu

In the name of love…

“Having people being needy of you is a spiritual short circuit”. The question is: what (energy) are you really facilitating – unconditional love, or bread of shame? When you are dependent on others, things, the externalities to fulfil your lack, feed your emptiness, improve your situation, you are giving away the pilot seat of your […]

Life is hard for two reasons:

“Because you are leaving your comfort zone, or because you are staying in it.” Change is painful, especially when it comes to changing oneself. That is why most of us don’t change. Or, we will only start to make changes when the pain of not changing becomes greater than the pain of changing, which is […]

Beyond Law Of Attraction

One of the most popular (and misunderstood) concepts, derived from the quantum theory, is the concept of “law of attraction”. Like attracts like. “As long as I think positively, I will attract only ‘good stuff’ into my life”. Yet, three months down the line, things fall apart. The business deal falls through; the partner runs […]

LOVE THY NEIGHBOUR | HUIWEN WU

Love Thy Neighbour | Huiwen Wu

We can only love ourselves for who we are, when we love ourselves for who we are not. (an interpretation of Love Thy Neighbour as Thyself)    

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Fish’s Search For Meaning | Huiwen Wu

If you are a fish, and you are trying to plant a tree, because you believe that by planting the tree you will make the world a better place, you are wrong.  

The Battle Worth Fighting For | Huiwen Wu

What is it like to take the red pill? You ask. It is – Finding peace in chaos; Finding stillness in movements; Finding hope in despair; Finding light in darkness; Finding certainty in the uncertain; Finding forgiveness in the unforgivable; Finding virtue in wickedness; Finding unity in differences; Finding strength in pessimism; Finding comfort outside […]

The Ostrich Strategy | Huiwen Wu

The Secret on how to lead a mediocre life: The Ostrich Strategy Take a look around, if there is no one in the room whom you aspire to become in 10 years, keep doing whatever you are doing and looking forward to the weekend (or your next vacation).   ************************ Something I learned from my […]

True or False | Huiwen Wu

One of the major work in our spiritual journey is to discern true from false. That was the sin of Adam. When the snake approached Adam and Eve, he spoke the truth. He told them that they could eat the fruit from the tree of knowledge, the good and the evil. And it’s true. But […]

On Going Extreme | Huiwen Wu

Going extreme is oftentimes an easy way out. In Hebrew, the word me’od means ‘very’, but it also looks like the word mot, which means ‘death’. Whenever we become extreme, we are out of balance and we bring chaos into our lives. This is also true for spirituality. It is very easy to go completely […]

The Secret of Judging | Huiwen Wu

Oftentimes when we say that we are judging someone, we think that we are doing something wrong. But we need to judge. Every sentence is a judgment. Inevitable, we are judging every second in our lives. The question is – how to do the right judgment. The Sages reveal the secret: remove the space. Remove […]